{"id":20707,"date":"2020-02-26T14:07:03","date_gmt":"2020-02-26T22:07:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/?p=20707"},"modified":"2020-02-26T14:15:47","modified_gmt":"2020-02-26T22:15:47","slug":"religion-is-supposed-to-bind-us-together-dont-use-it-to-cast-others-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/religion-is-supposed-to-bind-us-together-dont-use-it-to-cast-others-out\/","title":{"rendered":"Religion is supposed to bind us together; don\u2019t use it to cast others out"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Rev. Paul Graves<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>As a nation and as families, we live in a time when religion\u2019s ugly side seems to be overpowering religion\u2019s beautiful side. Why? Well, perhaps the complicated answer includes the truth that our ugly human side seems to be overpowering our human capacity for compassion and hope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From extreme, national-to-local political weaponizing of religion to the most intimate personal expressions of religious fervor, religious \u201ccommon ground\u201d is a steel ball battered in a highly competitive pinball game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Within my Methodist faith tradition, two songs are sung often: \u201cBlest Be the Tie That Binds,\u201d and \u201cBind Us Together.\u201d We sing of religion that binds us to one another, to God, to the world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-circle-mask td-caption-align-center\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/INSIGHTS_NuturingElders_paul.jpg?resize=200%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8826\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/INSIGHTS_NuturingElders_paul.jpg?w=200&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/INSIGHTS_NuturingElders_paul.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><figcaption>Rev. Paul Graves<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the root meanings of the word \u201creligion\u201d comes from the Latin&nbsp;<em>religare,<\/em>\u201cfasten, bind fast, to tie.\u201d There is also the sense of being able to \u201ctrust, depend on, fall back on.\u201d (I like to check out the root meanings of important words, especially when those words are being distorted, as \u201creligion\u201d is today.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my skeptical moments, of which there are far too many in recent times, I ask myself and others: Is my\/your religion a tie that binds or blinds? Human history shows, time and again, that religion\u2019s rhythm too easily flows between binding ties and blinding ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To illustrate: Last Monday, I received an advocacy alert from a faith-based group. It was deeply concerned that the Trump administration is again willing to use \u201creligious liberty\u201d as a code term to discriminate against LGBTQ persons who seek social services from faith-based agencies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Current regulations require those agencies to direct persons to other agencies if they choose not to serve LGBTQ persons. New regulations would allow faith-based agencies to not tell these persons of any other agencies, presumably out of their \u201creligious liberty\u201d to stay silent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t know the nuances or motivations of this potential change. But I have a hunch (read \u201cbias\u201d if you like) that \u201creligious liberty\u201d is, indeed, code for discrimination against persons whom the Trump administration deems as less than deserving of honest, even religious, compassionate and just treatment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Trump administration\u2019s track record is abysmal when it comes to religious bedrock values, like compassion, justice and equal treatment. I honestly don\u2019t understand how so many evangelical Christians can support policies and rhetoric that mystifyingly oppose most every Christian ethic I\u2019ve learned to embrace from Scripture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The example above seems to create a religious tie that binds people together who think alike. But it\u2019s a tie that blinds them to the callous, even cruel, consequence of denying vulnerable people the services they both need and have a human-decency right to request. Hatred, disrespect and cruelty are not Jesus\u2019 values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s get more personal: Too frequently, we can bind and blind ourselves \u2014 and each other \u2014 as we develop or solidify our religious ties. It\u2019s a delicate balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What religious tie binds\/blinds you to your awareness of God in your life, as Creator of the world? What religious tie binds\/blinds you to persons you don\u2019t agree with, or you negatively, harshly judge?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An old religious clich\u00e9: \u201cI love the church. It\u2019s the people I can\u2019t stand!\u201d That religious tie binds and blinds in 10 words. Quite efficient. And too often quite accurate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do yourself a courageous favor: Read Micah 6:8 and Luke 4:14-18. Do they reflect a religious tie that binds us to people or blinds us to real human compassion? Who we follow \u2013 \u201creligiously\u201d even \u2013 may bind us to people in healthy ways, or blind us to their needs. Choose wisely who you follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Rev. Paul Graves<\/strong> is a retired United Methodist elder in the PNW Conference and a regular columnist for the Spokesman-Review.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;What religious tie binds\/blinds you to persons you don\u2019t agree with, or you negatively, harshly judge?&#8221;<br \/>\nRev. 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