{"id":19743,"date":"2019-03-28T08:00:34","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T15:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/?p=19743"},"modified":"2019-06-11T12:36:05","modified_gmt":"2019-06-11T19:36:05","slug":"lgbtq-and-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/lgbtq-and-you\/","title":{"rendered":"LGBTQ and You \u2013 an Introductory Glossary of Terms and Usage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>By Rev. Ann Lock<\/strong>  |  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/LGBTQ-and-You-\u2013-a-Glossary-of-Terms-and-Usage.pdf\">Download PDF Version<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align:center\"><em>\u201cWhat the heck are all these letters?\u201d<\/em><br><em>\u201cHow am I supposed to keep track when the rules keep changing?\u201d<br>\u201cI\u2019m afraid I\u2019ll say something stupid or rude because I\u2019m not sure how to use the terms.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is very challenging to enter into any conversation when we don\u2019t have the right words. Most of us were not taught these terms and concepts, so it takes some effort to learn them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thank you for making the effort to understand some of what\u2019s going on in this part of our culture and community. Learning this vocabulary is an important way of showing hospitality and respect to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first thing to get one\u2019s head around is that the following five terms all refer to different but related aspects of human sexuality. Human beings are complex, and every human being has all five of these characteristics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Sex \/ physical sex \/ biological sex<\/li><li>Gender Identity<\/li><li>Gender Expression<\/li><li>Sexual Orientation<\/li><li>Sexual Behavior<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Sex or Anatomical Sex<\/strong><br><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Sex or anatomical sex refers to biological characteristics. These include internal and external body parts, body chemistry, hormones, and chromosomes. Our dominant culture (western, Euro-American) generally assumes there are just 2 sexes: male and female. But over time, science has shown that this is not actually the case. (There are other cultures in which it\u2019s long been accepted that there are more than 2 sexes.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, somewhere between .05%-2%<sup>[1] <\/sup>of the population has some mix of biological characteristics that don\u2019t fit into this binary either\/or of <g class=\"gr_ gr_12 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-ins doubleReplace replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"12\" data-gr-id=\"12\"><g class=\"gr_ gr_12 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-ins doubleReplace replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"12\" data-gr-id=\"12\">male<\/g><\/g>\/female. (It\u2019s about as common as having red hair: 1%-2% of the population.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Babies born with a mix of these characteristics, or ambiguous characteristics (since some do not emerge until puberty) were once referred to as \u201chermaphrodites\u201d.<br>This term has fallen out of use and is now considered offensive. <strong>Intersex <\/strong>is now the preferred term for individuals who have some non-binary mix of biological sex characteristics.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Gender Identity<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Gender Identity is about how a person feels inside, about who they are:<br>feminine, masculine, neither, or both. Since ideas about gender change over time and culture, this can be a confusing thing to talk about. Most people, from a very young age, clearly identify \u201cI\u2019m a girl\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m a boy.\u201d About .05%-.06%<sup>[2]<\/sup>however, feel like the gender they were assigned at birth doesn\u2019t fit them. It doesn\u2019t feel right. A mistake was made, and it\u2019s not really who they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Putting sex and gender identity together, we get these Terms for Gender Identity:<strong><br><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>cis-gender <\/strong>\u2013 (pronounced \u201c<em>sis-gender<\/em>\u201d) refers to someone whose sex (as assigned at birth) and gender identity match.<\/li><li><strong>transgender <\/strong>or <strong>trans <\/strong>\u2013 refers to someone whose sex (as assigned at birth) and gender identity are not a match. A trans person may or may not be choosing to take steps to alter their biological characteristics. It is a mistake to assume that everyone who is trans is interested in or will pursue medical intervention.<\/li><li><strong>queer <\/strong>or <strong>genderqueer <\/strong>\u2013 these are tough terms for people who are over age 35 or so. The word \u201cqueer\u201d used to be used only as a slur to insult people who did not conform to gender norms. However, in recent decades, the word \u201cqueer\u201d has been reclaimed and now serves as an umbrella term. For many people, saying, \u201cI\u2019m queer,\u201d is the simplest (and least invasive) way to identify as outside the norms of a binary system that doesn\u2019t include everyone.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Gender Expression<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Simply put, gender expression is how I choose to show up in the world.\n<br>Gender expression includes clothing, shoes, jewelry, makeup, accessories, hairstyles, language, behavior\u2014even some professions are still considered gendered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?fit=696%2C487&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"Gender Unicorn\" class=\"wp-image-19766\" width=\"300\" height=\"209\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?w=3000&amp;ssl=1 3000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=300%2C210&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=768%2C538&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=1024%2C717&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=100%2C70&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=696%2C487&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=1068%2C748&amp;ssl=1 1068w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=600%2C420&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?resize=1920%2C1345&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?w=1392&amp;ssl=1 1392w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?w=2088&amp;ssl=1 2088w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>The Gender Unicorn is alternate take on visualizing Gender Identity preferred by some trans advocates. Click for a larger view.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Terms Related to Gender Expression:<br><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>male\/masculine<\/strong><\/li><li><strong>female\/feminine<\/strong><\/li><li><strong>non-binary (NB) <\/strong><\/li><li><strong>gender fluid<\/strong><\/li><li><strong>gender queer<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Gender expression is <strong>culturally specific<\/strong> and changes over time and place.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Example: Tongan men, Indian men, and Scotsmen can wear garments that look similar to skirts (<em>tupenu, vishti<\/em>, and\u00a0<em>kilt<\/em>, respectively)\u00a0without threat to their sense of masculinity. In some cultures, skirts are not considered only \u201cfeminine\u201d clothing.<\/li><li>Example: 150 years ago in the United States or England, women wearing pants were scandalous\/inappropriate. Women and men ostracized or assaulted women for transgressing that gender expression norm. Now, most women freely wear pants most of the time, and no assumptions about their sexuality or identity are made about it.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Who has freedom to fully \u201dexpress\u201d?<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>In dominant American\/white culture, women have a <em>much <\/em>larger accepted range in gender expression than men do. Any clothing store testifies to this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Example: Women can wear what\u2019s traditionally men\u2019s clothing (pants, suits, boots, suspenders, fedoras) and still be considered \u201cfeminine\u201d or \u201cwomanly.\u201d<br>However, men and women frequently tease, bully, or physically assault men who transgress the norms of masculine gender expression by wearing traditionally women\u2019s clothing or cosmetics, unless it is done as an obvious joke.<\/li><li>People generally dress to express the gender they are. Depending on a person\u2019s physical characteristics, people may or may not perceive a person is \u201cconvincing\u201d or \u201cpassing\u201d. Unless you want to date them, there is no reason you need to know whether a person you encounter is trans, or a masculine-looking woman, or a feminine-looking man, or androgynous. People are people and deserve respect.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pronouns<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>If you don\u2019t know what pronouns someone prefers, it is 100% okay to simply ask them, \u201cWhat pronouns do you use?\u201d Then use what they tell you.<\/li><li>If you guess <g class=\"gr_ gr_15 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Punctuation only-del replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"15\" data-gr-id=\"15\">wrong,<\/g> or forget to use the correct pronoun and the person corrects you, don\u2019t make it a big deal. Just apologize, say \u201cthanks\u201d for the correction, (as you would if you called someone \u201cDan\u201d whose name is \u201cStan\u201d and he corrected you) and move on.<\/li><li>Many cultures have gender-neutral pronouns for people, in addition to feminine and masculine. In English, gender-neutral pronouns (it\/its) are for objects, not people. So, people who don\u2019t identify as a \u201cher\u201d or a \u201chim\u201d are left with \u201cthey\/them\u201d as the best pronouns we\u2019ve got right now. Many queer people prefer \u201cthey\/them\u201d as pronouns. For those who have been used to using they\/them only as a plural, this can initially feel strange and takes a lot of practice. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Language changes over time; allowing room for pronouns is a simple act of hospitality. It\u2019s worth the effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. Sexual Orientation<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The term \u201csexual orientation\u201d can imply that it\u2019s all about sex acts, which is not accurate because even people who are not sexually active still have an orientation. Orientation is really about what happens in our hearts. Orientation is about who I am romantically attracted to, who I fall in love with, who I want to make a home\/family with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Far more complex than two options (heterosexual or homosexual), sexual orientation is best understood on a spectrum. Very few people are 100% one thing; most of us are more complex, as researchers have continued to discover over the past 70 years.<sup>[3]<\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align:center\">\u201cThe living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.\u201d<br>&#8211; <em>Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align:center\">\u201cMany persons do not want to believe that there are gradations in these matters from one to the other extreme.\u201d &#8211;<em>Sexual Behavior of the Human Female (1953)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Within orientation, there is also the distinction between romantic attraction and sexual attraction. For most of us, these can seem like the same thing, because we experience them in concert. Yet, romantic attraction and sexual attraction for some people function independently. Thus, many of the terms below which you may be familiar with when they end in <em>-sexual<\/em>, can also have the ending <em>\u2013romantic<\/em>, to indicate something different (e.g., <em>homoromantic, in addition to homosexual; heteroromantic, in addition to heterosexual<\/em>).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Terms related to Sexual Orientation<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>heterosexual, hetero-romantic <\/strong>\u2013 attracted to people who are of a different sex<\/li><li><strong>gay<\/strong>\u2013 men attracted to men (this term is also used for women attracted to women)&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong><g class=\"gr_ gr_10 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-ins doubleReplace replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"10\" data-gr-id=\"10\">lesbian<\/g><\/strong>\u2013 woman attracted to women<\/li><li><strong>bisexual, biromantic&nbsp;<\/strong>\u2013 attracted to men and women<\/li><li><strong>pansexual, panromantic<\/strong>\u2013 attracted to people along the spectrum of gender<\/li><li><strong>asexual, aromantic&nbsp;<\/strong>\u2013 not attracted to anyone&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>queer&nbsp;<\/strong>\u2013 don\u2019t fit in these categories or prefer the larger umbrella term&nbsp;<\/li><li>(FYI \u2013 \u201cgay and lesbian\u201d are preferred terms rather than \u201chomosexuals\u201d)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>5. Sexual Behavior<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Notice: <\/strong>All of the above differences and complexities exist BEFORE behavior comes into the question. Without anyone touching anyone else, each human being already is\/has 1, 2, 3, and 4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How a person chooses to express their sexuality is also complex, and a personal matter. This is where we get into questions of ethics, right\/wrong, power, consent, mutuality, and personal preferences. <br><br>We can identify common and consistent values across all orientations, identities, expressions, and biological differences. Such <g class=\"gr_ gr_11 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Punctuation only-del replaceWithoutSep gr-progress\" id=\"11\" data-gr-id=\"11\">as:<\/g><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Sexual behavior is <em>positive<\/em> when it is consensual, mutual, and pleasurable. (Some people choose to have additional criteria, such as marriage.)<\/li><li>Sexual behavior is <em>wrong<\/em> when it is abusive, coerced, or exploitative.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Terms related to Sexual Behavior<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>celibate <\/strong>(no sexual partners)<\/li><li><strong>monogamous <\/strong>(single partner)<\/li><li><strong>polyamorous<\/strong>, or <strong>poly- <\/strong><g class=\"gr_ gr_4 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear ContextualSpelling ins-del multiReplace\" id=\"4\" data-gr-id=\"4\"><g class=\"gr_ gr_4 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear ContextualSpelling ins-del multiReplace\" id=\"4\" data-gr-id=\"4\">or<\/g><\/g><strong><g class=\"gr_ gr_4 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear ContextualSpelling ins-del multiReplace\" id=\"4\" data-gr-id=\"4\"><g class=\"gr_ gr_4 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear ContextualSpelling ins-del multiReplace\" id=\"4\" data-gr-id=\"4\">poly<\/g><\/g>-am <\/strong>(multiple partners)<\/li><li><strong>non-monogamous <\/strong>(multiple partners)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>So, what about that acronym again?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>LGBT or LGBTQ or LGBTQIA+ or LGBTQQIA+ or\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>L<\/strong>esbian<br><strong>G<\/strong>ay <br><strong>B<\/strong>isexual<br><strong>T<\/strong>ransgender<br><strong>Q<\/strong>ueer or <strong>Q<\/strong>uestioning<br><strong>I<\/strong>ntersex<br><strong>A<\/strong>sexual<br>+ plus \u2013 making an acronym cover what has taken 5 pages to describe is tough \u2013 that\u2019s why this acronym changes over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a way of avoiding the alphabet soup of this abbreviation, many people use the term \u201cqueer\u201d as an alternate umbrella term.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Some Important Context and Suggestions for Respectful Interaction with Neighbors<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What about surgery and hormones?<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Transgender people have characteristics that don\u2019t match who they are inside. Some trans people go through hormonal treatments and medical procedures to make their bodies more closely reflect their identity. Some trans people do not go through medical interventions. Some prefer to accept themselves as they are, others are limited by the expense, lack of insurance coverage, or lack of providers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>NOTE: People often let their curiosity get ahead of their manners. We do not ask people about their genitalia. It is very rude to ask a trans person about their experience of transitioning (scars, hormone treatments, etc.) or their plans around transitioning. It is private medical information. (Imagine someone asking you about the shape of your penis or vagina in casual conversation. Outrageous, right? None of their business, right? Right. Don\u2019t do that to queer people.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Shouldn\u2019t everyone just stick with what it says on their birth certificate?<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Every year, a percentage of babies are born with ambiguous or intersex characteristics, and as more are identified as puberty hits\u2014somewhere between .05% and 1.7% of the population<sup>[4]<\/sup>. (By comparison, having red hair is about 1%-2%.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the U.S., it\u2019s been common practice to have doctors and parents guess at <g class=\"gr_ gr_4 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-del replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"4\" data-gr-id=\"4\">a gender<\/g> for an intersex child and put that sex on the birth certificate. Sometimes, this involves surgical procedures to make the baby\u2019s physical characteristics and the choice consistent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Increasingly, the ethics of this are being called into question. Many parents and medical professionals feel that it\u2019s not their right to make those decisions for someone else. Instead, they find it better to wait, let the child grow up, discover what changes emerge in puberty, and see what they would like to do about changes in their body.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">If it\u2019s all so personal and private, why do we have to talk about it\/hear about it so much<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Because it\u2019s currently legal to discriminate against LGBTQIA+ people, and that injustice needs to be changed. Queer people have struggled for many years to have the right to live their lives without fear, shame, harassment, persecution, and prosecution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While some civil rights have been secured, the queer community is more likely to experience harassment, violence, homelessness, job discrimination, housing discrimination and religious rejection than non-queer people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The equal right to civil marriage is a powerful victory, but it is certainly not the end of the struggle for freedom and equality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Religion &amp; LGBTQIA+ people<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>As has been true during previous struggles for equality and inclusion (the proper role of women, people of color, left-handed people), religious people continue to disagree about this human difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many Christians believe LGBTQ+ people are simply an example of God\u2019s love of variety in creation (and are therefore accountable to the same ethical and religious requirements as those heterosexual people). Other Christians believe these differences are inherently sinful (and therefore require correction, rather than affirmation).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a denomination, The United Methodist Church has been split about this for over 45 years. Our global Book of Discipline contains self-contradictory statements about human sexuality, the sacred worth of each human being, and equality of access to <g class=\"gr_ gr_13 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"13\" data-gr-id=\"13\">ministry<\/g> of Christ\u2019s church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Pacific Northwest Annual Conference, and the Western Jurisdiction of The <g class=\"gr_ gr_4 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Punctuation only-del replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"4\" data-gr-id=\"4\">UMC,<\/g> have clearly and decisively sided <strong>for the inclusion and affirmation <\/strong>of LGBTQ+ people as members, leaders, and clergy. There are, however, individual United Methodists, some congregations, and some clergy in our area who do not agree with the majority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bonus Question: What\u2019s \u201cDrag\u201d? (Drag Queen\/Drag King)<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Drag is a kind of performance art. It\u2019s <g class=\"gr_ gr_6 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"6\" data-gr-id=\"6\">time-honored<\/g> form of theater that plays with gender expression and heightened gender stereotypes. There are many genres of drag. Drag queens are the most well-known\u2014there\u2019s a TV competition show called<em>RuPaul\u2019s Drag Race <\/em>that\u2019s in its 10<sup>th<\/sup>season<em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drag queens are people, usually male or trans, who dress in women&#8217;s clothing and often act with exaggerated and stereotypical femininity with a primarily entertaining purpose. They often exaggerate make-up for dramatic, comedic, and\/or satirical effect. The term \u201cfemale impersonator\u201d is no longer used.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drag kings are mostly female or trans performance artists who dress in masculine drag and personify male gender stereotypes as part of an individual or group routine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although stereotypes abound, it\u2019s not really safe to assume you know much about someone who performs drag\u2026because it\u2019s <em>a performance.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drag performers may be lesbian, bisexual, transgender, cis-gender, bisexual, genderqueer, or otherwise part of the LGBT community. In drag\u2019s current expression in the USA, it\u2019s generally considered and celebrated as a queer art form.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em>This glossary was compiled by the Rev. Ann Lock, an Elder in the Pacific Northwest Annual Conference of the UMC. Rev. Lock is a hetero, cis-gender woman who works with congregations that are predominantly heterosexual and cis-gender\u2014therefore this glossary is geared toward that audience. She wrote this guide for the local United Methodist congregation she serves to help them engage in conversation in a respectful way.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Everything Rev. Lock knows about these topics was gained due to the generosity and painstaking work of queer people and their allies in the movement to understand and love all members of God\u2019s family. Rev. Lock and has been actively involved in educating herself and working for justice and inclusion since 2000. Any errors or glaring omissions are entirely her own.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>In addition to the footnoted studies, a great deal of this information was created by or informed by:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genderbread.org\/\">Infographic: The Genderbread Person<\/a> *<\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/genderunicorn1.0.jpg?ssl=1\">Infographic: The Gender Unicorn<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.genderspectrum.org\/explore-topics\/\">Gender Spectrum<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.queertheology.com\/resources\/\">Queer Theology<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/gaycenter.org\/\">The Center<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/rmnetwork.org\/\">Reconciling Ministries Network<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/whosoever.org\/bible\/index.shtml\">Whosoever Ministries<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedomtomarry.org\/pages\/Why-Marriage-Matters\">Freedom to Marry<\/a><\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>[1]<\/sup> <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Transgender\">Wikipedia<\/a> &#8211; citing Steinmetz, Katy (30 June 2016). <a href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/4389936\/transgender-americans-statistic-how-many\/\"><em>&#8220;1.4 Million Americans Identify as Transgender, Study Finds&#8221;<\/em><\/a>. Time. <a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20160630205328\/http:\/time.com\/4389936\/transgender-americans-statistic-how-many\/\"><em>Archived <\/em><\/a>from the original on 30 June 2016<em>. Retrieved 30 June 2016 <\/em>and 3 other publications.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>[2]<\/sup>American Journal of Human Biology, Am. J. Hum. Biol. 12:151\u2013166, 2000. \u00a9 2000 Wiley\u2010Liss, Inc. <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/\">LINK<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>[3]<\/sup><em>Sexual Behavior in the Human Male<\/em> (1948) and ;<em>Sexual Behavior of the Human Female<\/em> (1953) are known collectively as the Kinsey Reports. Together, they sold nearly a million copies and were translated in thirteen languages. The Kinsey Reports are associated with a change in public perception of sexuality and considered part of the most successful and influential scientific books of the 20th century.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>[4]<\/sup>American Journal of Human Biology, Am. J. Hum. 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