{"id":155,"date":"2012-04-18T16:00:16","date_gmt":"2012-04-18T23:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/gc2012\/?p=155"},"modified":"2012-04-18T23:31:44","modified_gmt":"2012-04-19T06:31:44","slug":"gc2012-where-views-on-marriage-differ","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pnwumc.org\/news\/gc2012-where-views-on-marriage-differ\/","title":{"rendered":"GC2012: Where views on marriage differ"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Photo:\u00a0Julie Bruno (left) and Susan Laurie lead a procession through the Fort Worth Convention Center, site of the 2008 United Methodist General Conference in Fort Worth, Texas, on the way to their marriage ceremony in this May 2008 file photograph.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>A UMNS Report <strong>by Kathy L. Gilbert*<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>During a lecture at Emory University, a scholar told a group of young students, \u201cJesus doesn\u2019t say a lot positive about marriage. In fact he seems to suggest we might be better off without it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Luke Timothy Johnson, the Robert W. Woodruff Professor of New Testament and Christian Origins at United Methodist-related Candler School of Theology, was examining the Gospel of Matthew in his lecture on \u201cJesus and the Law of Marriage and Divorce\u201d last February.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJesus said sometimes you have to become a eunuch for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. I think that advocating celibacy was something of a shock to my young listeners,\u201d he said. \u201cBy trying to be an advocate for Matthew\u2019s text, I tried to say that this Christian thing is not just a matter of domestic tranquility or keeping the law. It\u2019s pretty risky business. It\u2019s pretty demanding. And pretty shocking.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If Jesus didn\u2019t have a lot to say on the issue of marriage or sexual orientation, United Methodists have said volumes. Throughout church history, delegates to the denomination\u2019s top lawmaking body have always ended their quadrennial assembly leaving intact the statement \u201cmarriage is between one man and one woman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At the 2012 global meeting April 24-May 4 in Tampa, Fla., the question will be asked and decided once again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What does Scripture say?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are conflicting opinions over what the Bible teaches about sexual orientation.<\/p>\n<p>Matthew Vines, a 21-year-old gay college student, recently delivered a speech at College Hill United Methodist Church, Wichita, Kan., on his \u201cthousands of hours of research and study\u201d on what the Bible says about homosexuality.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/matthew-vines\/bible-homosexuality_b_1378368.html\" target=\"_blank\">He examines six verses in the Bible: Leviticus 18:22, Leviticus 20:13, Romans 1:26-27, Genesis 19:5, 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10<\/a>. Vines said those verses have proven to be the end of the road for many gays trying to gain acceptance from Christian parents, friends and pastors.<\/p>\n<p>The Rev. Karen Booth, author of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bristolhouseltd.com\/forgetting-how-to-blush\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cForgetting How to Blush: United Methodism\u2019s Compromise with the Sexual Revolution,\u201d<\/a>\u00a0said people in favor of same-sex marriage refer to those scriptures as \u201cclobber passages.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI believe that they mostly contain very good news, especially 1 Cor. 6,\u201d she said. In her book, Booth writes what constitutes God-honored sex and sexuality is not based on a \u201chandful of negative restrictions.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThrough the stories of the creation of humankind, God\u2019s original intention for human sexual relations is revealed: a loving, sacrificial and potentially procreational expression of the \u2018one flesh\u2019 male\/female marital bond.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSexual acts that occur outside that sacred boundary, whether same-sex or opposite-sex, are immoral\u2014grievous to God and detrimental to human beings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Vines\u2019 research leads him to believe God would not deny him or any other gay person the possibility of a loving relationship and a family.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/matthewvines.tumblr.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">In his remarks to the congregation at College Hill<\/a>, he examines each scripture in great detail.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe Bible does not condemn loving gay relationships,\u201d he said. \u201cIt is not opposed to justice and equality for gay people, and, in fact, it supports their equal right to marry. Scripture can prove to be one of our greatest allies, if only we\u2019re reading it correctly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>[toggle title=&#8221;More UMNS articles on gay rights&#8221;]<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2789393&amp;ct=9128483\" target=\"_blank\">Bishops react to homosexuality statement<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2789393&amp;ct=9144133\" target=\"_blank\">Homosexuality debate heats up<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=5847613&amp;ct=10888309\" target=\"_blank\">Church once more faces homosexuality divide<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2789393&amp;ct=9103189\" target=\"_blank\">33 retired bishops urge end to gay clergy ban<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2789393&amp;ct=11222649&amp;notoc=1\" target=\"_blank\">Clergy, laity push bishops on gay union ban<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=5259669&amp;ct=10905039\" target=\"_blank\">More clergy offer to bless same-sex unions<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2789393&amp;ct=8571753\" target=\"_blank\">Ruling intensifies debate on homosexuality<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2639513&amp;ct=5315905\" target=\"_blank\">United Methodists uphold homosexuality stance<\/a>[\/toggle]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Booth is an ordained elder in the Peninsula Delaware Annual (regional) Conference and director of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.transcong.org\/\">Transforming Congregations<\/a>. In her book, she carefully considers Scripture and chronicles the history of homosexuality in society and in the denomination. She said she was supportive of same-sex marriage for most of her young adulthood. Her heart began to change when a former seminary friend \u2014 who had been openly gay \u2014 told her how Jesus had transformed him.<\/p>\n<p>That conversation was a turning point, Booth said, and she began her own years of scientific and biblical research and study.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think people have little to no choice in their experience of same-sex attractions, though they have a choice regarding how they personally respond to those attractions,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI believe homosexual behavior \u2014 same-sex intimate behavior \u2014 is sinful. That (behavior) can be repented of, redeemed and healed, in other words \u2018overcome.\u2019 Often, but not always, the same-sex feelings line up with the behavior change.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Attitudes and laws<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gay marriage has been on the minds of many in the United States and around the world. According to the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life, the issue of whether gays can be legally married shows no sign of abating.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pewforum.org\/Gay-Marriage-and-Homosexuality\/A-Contentious-Debate-Same-Sex-Marriage-in-the-US.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cA Contentious Debate,\u201d<\/a>\u00a0says the issue has been decided in various ways in courts and legislatures in recent years.<\/p>\n<p>At this time, six states and the District of Columbia recognize same-sex marriage while 39 have laws limiting marriages to a man and a woman, according to the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncsl.org\/issues-research\/human-services\/same-sex-marriage-overview.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">National Conference of State Legislatures<\/a>. The Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Sweden and Norway have legalized gay marriage.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Conferences propose change<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In The United Methodist Church,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=5259669&amp;ct=10905039\">more than a dozen U.S. annual (regional) conferences<\/a>\u00a0are petitioning the 2012 General Conference on the church\u2019s ban on non-celibate, gay clergy and its prohibition against clergy officiating at same-sex unions.<\/p>\n<p>Some propose striking the words \u201cman and woman\u201d from the definition of marriage and adding \u201ctwo loving adults.\u201d Others want to retain the wording already in the United Methodist Book of Discipline, the denomination\u2019s law book.<\/p>\n<p>In May 2011, the United Methodist Judicial Council, the denomination\u2019s top court, upheld the church\u2019s prohibition against same-sex marriage and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=5259669&amp;ct=9378325\">ruled that the New York Annual (regional) Conference\u2019s resolution to allow clergy to \u201cmarry at their own discretion\u201d was neither \u201cvalid nor constitutional.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe church has a long tradition of maintaining its standards apart from those recognized or permitted by any civil authority,\u201d the decision said. \u201cThe church\u2019s definition of marriage as contained in the Discipline is clear and unequivocal and is limited to the union of one man and one woman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In June 2011, 70 Minnesota United Methodist clergy signed a statement saying they would\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content3.aspx?c=lwL4KnN1LtH&amp;b=2789393&amp;ct=10860667\">\u201coffer the grace of the Church\u2019s blessing to any prepared couple desiring Christian marriage,\u201d including same-sex couples<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The Rev. Amy DeLong, a lesbian clergy member of the Wisconsin Annual (regional) Conference was\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.umc.org\/site\/c.lwL4KnN1LtH\/b.7519397\/k.8E10\/Amy_DeLong_Trial.htm\">acquitted of being a \u201cself-avowed practicing homosexual\u201d but found guilty of celebrating a same-sex union in a public church trial in June 2011<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Foundry United Methodist Church, led by the Rev. Dean J. Snyder, launched a campaign \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.doorstoequality.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Opening Doors to Equality<\/a>\u00a0in February. The goal is to approve a resolution at General Conference to allow clergy \u201cto perform the pastoral care called for in their ordination vows and ensure that all who enter the doors of a United Methodist Church experience the unconditional love of Jesus.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>On March 23, the Oklahoma Annual (regional) Conference announced 62 clergy and 203 United Methodist church members had signed a statement in support of marriage equality and called for &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.tulsaworld.com\/news\/article.aspx?subjectid=11&amp;articleid=20120323_12_A9_OKLAHO601680\" target=\"_blank\">full equality and inclusion to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in the life of the church<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Proposals to agree that people of faith disagree also have been rejected by past General Conferences.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the 2008 General Conference the church agreed that \u201call persons are individuals of sacred worth, created in the image of God\u201d and called United Methodists to \u201cseek to live together in Christian community, welcoming, forgiving and loving one another as Christ has loved and accepted us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>*<\/em>Gilbert is a multimedia reporter for the young adult content team at United Methodist Communications, Nashville, Tenn.<\/p>\n<p>News media contact: Kathy L. Gilbert, Nashville, Tenn., (615) 742-5470 or\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:newsdesk@umcom.org\">newsdesk@umcom.org.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo:\u00a0Julie Bruno (left) and Susan Laurie lead a procession through the Fort Worth Convention Center, site of the 2008 United Methodist General Conference in Fort Worth, Texas, on the way to their marriage ceremony in this May 2008 file photograph. A UMNS Report by Kathy L. 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